We came to KL for more than a week now and life has been really hectic! We have 2 very active toddlers here and they certainly drain up our energy chasing after them! Should I be thankful that I’m expecting a girl?
Well, Darrius is certainly not very friendly when it comes to playing with his little cousin (my nephew). He has been very posessive over his things, be it toys, food or just about anything! We suspected that he is extremely jealous of his cousin since gong-gong and poh-poh showered the little boy with extra attention. He will snatch toys and hides them away from his cousin. Whatever he touches or played before will be his and he won’t allow his cousin brother to play. Yes, he turned into a selfish little brat! 😦 He refused to share… which is what I dreaded.
A few days back, while I was putting him to nap I had a chit-chat session with him on the bed.
Me: Boy, why you always bully Adrian?
Darrius: I don’t want Adrian.
Me: But Adrian can play with you mah? Why you don’t like him?
Darrius: I want baby to drink that milk-milk on the TV and fast-fast grow up and come out and put Adrian into mommy’s tummy. (he watched the Anmum commercial from the TV where images of a baby growing very fast)
Darrius: I don’t want Adrian to sit on my boot-car (the little 4-wheeler belonging to my nephew)
Me: Speechless 😐
This really surprised me. How a little brain can think of such thing! I am kinda worried now after seeing Darrius behaving this way. Will he treat his little sister the same next time? Though he was pretty positive in the beginning but situation might change when the baby is here.
My mom said the solution will be sending him off to school. However, I wonder will that really helps? He normally gets bullied outside but he is ‘THE KING’ when he’s at home. PiggyBeng has no qualms smacking him but I tried not to be so abusive (like caning) if I can help it.